Power of Sex- Part 6 "I've Messed up...Now What"

Part 6-I’ve Messed Up… Now What?


Jesus said to the people who believed in him, "You are truly my disciples if you keep obeying my teachings. And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. John 8:31-32

The truth about mistakes…

They keep me from living life to its fullest (John 10:10)

I can do very little on my own about them (Romans 15-17)

The truth about Jesus…

He understands temptation (Hebrews 4:15)

He understands pain (John 11:35)

He understands sexual sin (John 8:1-11)

THE GOOD NEWS ABOUT BAD DECISIONS

My guilt overwhelms me-- it is a burden too heavy to bear. My wounds fester and stink because of my foolish sins…I am exhausted and completely crushed. My groans come from an anguished heart. Psalm 38:4,5,8

1. God FORGIVES
He has removed our rebellious acts as far away from us as the east is from the west.
Psalm 103:13

But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from every wrong. 1 John 1:9

2. God FORGETS
My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if you do sin, there is someone to plead for you before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who pleases God completely. He is the sacrifice for our sins. He takes away not only our sins but the sins of all the world. 1 John 2:1-2

STARTING OVER

…those who become Christians become new persons. They are not the same anymore, for the old life is gone. A new life has begun. 2 Corinthians 5:17

1. Forgive YOURSELF
But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so very much, that even while we were dead because of our sins, he gave us life when he raised Christ from the dead. (It is only by God's special favor that you have been saved!) Ephesians 2:4-5

2. Confide in a trusted FRIEND
Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and wonderful results. James 5:16

3. Live as if you’re FORGIVEN
Oh, what joy for those whose rebellion is forgiven, whose sin is put out of sight! Yes, what joy for those whose record the LORD has cleared of sin, whose lives are lived in complete honesty! Psalm 32:1-2



4. Base your life on God’s DIRECTION
If you are wise and understand God's ways, live a life of steady goodness so that only good deeds will pour forth. James 3:13

Don't be afraid, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. I will help you. I will uphold you with my victorious right hand. Isaiah 41:10

Serra Graduation

Wanted to give a BIG shout out to all the Serra Graduates!!!! It was great seeing all of walk across the big stage to receive your diploma and an opportunity to embark on a brand new adventure. I am so stoked for all of you and good luck in college!!

Special congratulations to all the homies:

Kiki Boykin
John Drumond
Scott Hagen
KJ Higgins
Brian Keim
Robert Kimble
Ryan Labuda
Kevin Preston
Kevin Quach
Melissa Sandwell
Kavon

Limelight Lock Out 2008

Hey Limelight,

Welcome the most anticipated event of the Summer as we lock ourselves outside all night July 18th. The event begins and ends right here at the Youth Room, however, between the hours of 7pm and 7am we will be all over San Diego from pool parties to broom ball, breakfast at Denny's, and a black light party. So, invite all your friends and and let's get "Locked Out"!!!

See you there!!!
7pm July 18th- 7am July 19th
Transportation Provided by Limelight
Registration at the Youth Room Begins at 7pm on July 19th
Be sure to bring your signed permission form to the Youth Room for check in!!
Bring some $$ for breakfast at Denny's.
Call Cory with any questions???

Scream the Prayer

Limelight heads to Scream the Prayer this Saturday, June 14th at Soma
Still room left if you want to go!!!
Cost: $15

Power of Sex (Part 5) How Far is to Far

HOW FAR IS TOO FAR?
DEVELOPING HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
1. Care enough about your own life to ask the _RIGHT QUESTIONS____
“How far is too far?”
This question creates a line to blur and cross without getting to the most important questions.
“But, shouldn’t we know if we are sexually compatible?”
“What are the best choices for my life, my relationship with God, and for my future?”
Jeremiah 29:11
2. Evaluate what’s _IMPORTANT___to you
“Why am I in this relationship?”….“What do I want from this relationship?”
“How will being physical get me to what I really want/need?”
“What will a physical relationship do to our relationship?”
Psalm 1:1-3
3. Establish a temptation __PLAN________
Everyone is tempted! (1 Corinthians 10:13)
God doesn’t tempt you! (James 1:13-14)
There is a way to escape temptation (1 Corinthians 10:13)
I know my bottom-line (how far is too far vs. what’s best for future)
I’ve communicated my standards
I will stick to my convictions
I will avoid compromising situations
I will get out when necessary
4. Verbalize your __BOUNDARY_____ plans
Proverbs 15:22
5. Ask for __ACCOUNTABILITY____
Ecclesiastes 4:12
6. Guard your _MIND_____
Philippians 4:8
7. Embrace God’s Grace…don’t _CHEAPEN IT_______
Romans 6:14-15
8. Review these__NOTES____
9. Believe that you are not defined by who you _Date__ or _How Far____ you go
10. Pursue intimacy __WITH GOD________
You’ll have a natural desire to please him
You’ll receive the power to resist temptation
You’ll be more attracted to godliness

I hope that this action plan will allow you to experience freedom and fullness in your life, remember God's has a plan for your life, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future!! (Jeremiah 29:11 NIV)